On The Rocks | Communication | James 3:1–12

Joey Fennell explores how communication can strengthen or damage marriage and other relationships. Drawing from James 3, he emphasizes the tongue’s power and the need to choose words that build others up. He explains how different meanings, expectations and communication styles create misunderstandings, while withdrawal prevents vulnerability and intimacy. Practical steps include giving undivided attention, listening without immediately fixing problems, expressing expectations clearly and making time for conversation. Joey challenges listeners to stop assuming what others mean, recognize their own habits and speak with kindness through God’s grace. Thoughtful words, careful timing and shared attention help couples face life together rather than grow apart.